Why are toxic people so hard to deal with?

Here’s the thing – when it comes to dealing with a toxic, narcissistic person, it’s very likely that all your instincts are wrong. You can’t do what you think you should do, and you definitely can’t do what you want to do –

Because if you do, you will lose.

Abusers, narcissists, manipulators – they all play the game better than you do. It seems no matter what you do, they always figure out how to take control.

If you’re in that spot right now, here’s my advice –

Don’t play the game. Change the game.

As a narcissism counter-strategy coach, I’m trained to see what you don’t see.

I see the games they’re playing. I see the traps you’re falling for. And I see the options you already have in front of you that will change it all.

We’re not analyzing the past (that’s therapy). We’re strategizing about your future, so you can stop losing & start living.

It’s time to stop getting dragged around by that toxic, narcissistic person.

It’s time to take your life back.

Stressed out? Strategic.

Your toxic ex knows how to set a trap – do you know how to avoid falling for it? Learn to decode the communication tactics your ex is using and disarm their attempts to control you – all in this free e-guide.

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Michelle Donnelly is a narcissism counter-strategy coach based in the Nashville metro area. Michelle’s specialty is teaching divorced Christian women to detect & outmaneuver the toxic tactics of a narcissistic ex-spouse. She is also a trauma-informed author, speaker, podcaster, and certified biblical counselor.

Michelle has been highlighted by Moody Christian Radio, Focus on the Family, and Christian Parenting. She’s also been featured on the Abide prayer app, The Nothing is Wasted Podcast, The Happy Home Podcast with Arlene Pellicane, Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery, & more.

I will make the valley of trouble into a gateway of hope, Hosea 2:15